Get to the Point is a cunnilingus technique that is ideal for when you are transitioning from stimulating all-around your wife’s clitoris to direct clitoral stimulation.
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Performing the Get to the Point Technique
- Use a free hand and gently pull back your wife’s clitoral hood to expose her clitoris for this technique.
- Make your tongue soft, and use the tip of it to lick from the bottom of your wife’s vulva up towards her clitoris.
- Take a curvy track up, and swirl around her clitoris a few times instead of licking over it. Make sure you don’t directly lick her clitoris yet. You’re still just teasing it and building pressure.
- After swirling a few times, lick back down to the bottom of her vulva and start over again.
- Every time you start over, vary your track back up to her clitoris and how many times you swirl around it to keep her guessing.
- When she can’t take it anymore, use your tongue to give her direct clitoral stimulation.
Additional Stimulation
- G-Spot Stimulation: After teasing your wife for a while, swirl over her clitoris continuously with your tongue and use your fingers or the curved shaft of a g-spot vibrator to stimulate her g-spot for additional stimulation.
- Nipple & Breast Stimulation: Use a free hand or a pair of nipple suckers/vibrators to stimulate her nipples to release oxytocin that gives her the feeling of bonding and helps bring on an orgasm.
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