Suction Pucker is a cunnilingus technique that stimulates and increases blood flow to her clitoris, which significantly increases its sensitivity. This technique is great for revving up the stimulation during foreplay.
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Performing the Suction Pucker Technique
- Lick your lips, so the moisture helps create a good seal around your wife’s clitoris.
- Make a small “O” shape with your lips.
- Place the “O” over her clitoris and follow one of the techniques below to stimulate her.
Constant Suck: Suck and draw her clitoris between your lips, and then hold it there. This is an excellent technique to begin with and is all some women need to come.
Rhythmic Suck: Suck and release in a rhythm. Her clitoris will move back and forth against your lips with incredible stimulation.
Hard Suck with Slow Release: Suck her clitoris hard, hold it for a bit, and slowly release it.
Licking Suck: Suck her clitoris into your mouth, hold it there, and then lick her clitoris with your tongue.
Note: This post is part of our Giving Your Wife Great Cunnilingus series.
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Oral man says
Great post. I must say that I learned a few new things from this article and I have been giving my wife oral pleasure for 40 years, and she’s always more willing to have me lick her, she just has to ask me and I’m ready to spend an afternoon or evening at my most favorite pastime. I am not a big sports fan, my idea of a relaxing Sunday afternoon is having sexual intimacy with my wife. She has also learned how to give he mind blowing oral that can put me in an altered state. We try various positions, and techniques, different places to go and just have good a time. She likes long slow massages, which sometimes involve vibrators. Her body, her soft skin are like an artists canvass which I use to please her. Her textures, her taste, and her aroma are intoxicating. When I get up close and personal I lose myself in her moistness, and she has a certain sweetness to her vagina that keeps me coming back. There is no ball game or other activity that we enjoy more than sexual intimacy, and with no kids at home anymore we have ramped up our sex life, and now we can refine our techniques. Spending time kissing, licking, sucking, fondling and feasting on her breasts is always a great warm up to a greatly anticipated time of unadulterated SEX. Yum, yum yum. Thank you for letting me share.
Andy R says
I learned this technique from elsewhere. My wife really responds to it. I suggest if you are just beginning to arouse your wives use more of your mouth. [edit] As I was saying if she is not already revved up use more or your whole mouth with this technique. Your upper lip should be at the top of her pelvic mound and lower lip at the middle of her vulva (unless you have a smaller mouth) with her unerected clitoris about center with your open mouth. Watch your teeth, don’t Dracula her garden! Press your lips firm for suction and give a good gentle suck like giving a hickey but we are not trying to draw blood SO NOT TOO HARD! Of course with unmanaged pubic hair this is tough so the method above is better for that situation. Hold the suction for a second or two and gently slide your lips together while still sucking and meet them at her clitoris then release. Repeat two or three times. Repeat again but start giving her clit those licks as explained above. You will notice her clitoris really getting swelled and hard. If you can see what you are doing it should be poking out of its hood. By the fifth time she should be ready for another technique or gspot attention from fingers or your member. Remember also guys. If your wife is like mine, if you let her orgasm from clitoral stimulation she may not want you down there for a little while. I learned the hard way with my wife. Also harder to achieve those multiples. Get her to the preorgasmic state then give her vaginal orgasms from her aspot pspot and/or gspot. Save the clitoral orgasm for last. Also refer to how to make her squirt because she will with this method and may not let it all go because it’s never happened before and she thinks she going to urinate but it’s not that at all. Happy pleasing thanks for letting me share!