Teasing Thumb is a cunnilingus technique that adds shallow vaginal and perineum stimulation from his fingers.
Performing the Teasing Thumb Cunnilingus Technique
- This technique demonstrates the power of width over depth inside her vaginal entrance. Instead of inserting your index finger into her vagina while giving her cunnilingus, gently press the pad of your thumb against her vaginal opening as if it were reading your thumb print. Let your thumb sink in until you can only see your thumb’s nail facing you.
- While your index finger is inserted in her vagina, rotate your thumb down to the six o’clock position and then stroke, tickle, and press on her perineum (the area between her vulva and anus).
- While your index finger is inserted in her vagina, rotate your thumb up to the twelve o’clock position and massage her frenulum, the area just below her clitoris, with your thumb.
Note: This post is part of our Giving Your Wife Great Cunnilingus series.
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Brenton says
Hi there, i would like to try this with my wife however I’m a little confused.
What happens between step 1 & 2 from having your thumb slightly pressed over her vaginal opening to having your index finger in her vagina?
Sorry I’m confused!
Karis says
I am not one of the authors for this site but my guess is that you would massage the lower area of the vaginal opening with your thumb. This would increase the vagina’s elasticity and lubrications so it’s easier to insert your index finger in step 2.
Brenton says
Thankyou Karis!
Liam says
This is great. We’ve used this among other cunnilingus techniques throughout all of our marriage. Lucky for us that we both giving and receiving it. Sure fire way to excite your wife.