Blackout is a technique that helps the shy or apprehensive spouse feel more comfortable while giving or receiving manual sex such as a handjob or manual stimulation or oral sex such as cunnilingus or a blowjob during foreplay. This is an excellent technique for couples who are trying something new for the first time.
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Sometimes a spouse wants to try something new, but they feel shy and apprehensive about giving or receiving it. Here’s a simple tip that helps ease some of the shyness and apprehensiveness.
Wear a Blindfold: Wearing a blindfold removes one of your senses. When one of your senses is removed, your other senses are heightened. This allows you to concentrate more on enjoying the moment. The lack of eye contact eases the shyness a bit, too.
Mask the Sounds: Some wives don’t like the sounds that are created when giving fellatio. Good fellatio makes all sorts of sounds that make some women feel dirty and turn them off. Turn on a loud fan or put on some soothing, romantic music to mask the sounds made while giving him a blowjob.
Oh, one more thing. If you’re grossed out by any fluids that might be released into your mouth while giving your husband a blowjob, place a flavored condom over his penis. They actually taste great, and you won’t have anything to worry about.