How to Give Your Husband a Handjob

There’s so much more you can do than the simple up-and-down strokes of a typical hand job. We’re going to share several hand job tips and techniques that are sure to blow your husband’s mind.

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Know Your Husband’s Penis

It’s very important to know about the parts of your husband’s penis and how they work. This knowledge will help you be a better lover.

Anatomy of the Penis

Getting Into Position

The first thing you need to do is get into a comfortable position when giving your husband a hand job. Both of you would hate it if you had a cramp during a hand job.

Getting Into Position for the Perfect Hand Job

Lube is Important

Handjobs generate a lot of friction. The proper type and amount of lube are very important so that your handjob is a pleasurable experience.

Best Lube for Giving a Hand Job

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The State of Your Hands

Remember ladies that you’re handling the most tender and sensitive part of your husband’s body. Psychologically, he’ll make a connection between the way you take care of your hands and the care your hands will take of him.

  • Cleanliness is very important. You wouldn’t want him to touch you with dirty hands!
  • Make sure your hands are smooth and free from rough spots. To keep your hands soft and moist, we suggest moisturizing them twice a day with unscented lotion.
  • Your nails should be very well manicured. The tiniest nick could cause extreme discomfort for your husband.
  • Take off any rings or bracelets you’re wearing. They get in the way and feel like rough spots to your husband.

Hand Job Techniques

  • Coiffeuse – Great for getting him fully erect using your long hair or a soft scarf.
  • Togetherness – Great for learning what he likes.
  • Jar Opener – A long stroke with a twist at the top and continuous flow of sensation.
  • Penis Samba – A fast continuous flow of sensation at the head of his penis.
  • Basket Weave – Long twisting strokes with a firm grip.
  • Pulse – Long twisting strokes with a firm grip and pulsing sensation.
  • Taffy Pull – An elongating stroke with a little testicle stimulation.
  • Batter Up – A long stroke with a little testicle stimulation.
  • Basic Attention – A jar opener sensation on the head of his penis.
  • Hand Cross – Strokes and sensations that mimic intercourse.
  • Fruit in a Basket – Use your breasts instead of hands for this technique.
  • Pirouette – A double handed stroking and twisting technique.
  • Fire Starter – A back and forth shaft rubbing technique that will light his fire.
  • One-On-One Combinations – One hand is stroking while the other is wandering.
  • Church and Steeple – A long immersing tube technique.
  • Rain Pattern – Like rain drops on his penis.
  • One Hand Clapping – A slapping sensation.
  • Spinal Massage – A sensual massaging effect.
  • Rings – A sensation of twisting rings flowing down the shaft of his penis.
  • Bird Cage – A lot of stimulation to the head and upper shaft.

Get the Most Out Of Your Hand Jobs

  • Don’t forget to give your husband a great view of your breasts while giving him a handjob. Wear a sexy top or nothing at all! He’ll really appreciate that.
  • The three most important things to remember when giving a hand job are heat, moisture, and a snug fit. Keep your hands warm moist, and make sure your grip is snug, but not too tight.
  • The head of some men’s penises are sensitive to the point that overstimulation can hurt. If your husband is one of these guys, concentrate more just below the rim of the head of his penis.
  • Communication is very important. Have your husband tell or show you what feels best.
  • When you’re giving your husband a hand job, make sure a towel or two are close by. Things can get really messy.

 

Wives: When your husband asks, “Where did you learn those new moves?”, point them to this site, specifically Giving Your Wife Great Cunnilingus. You’re welcome. 😉

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5 Comments


  1. Woah! I must try these out. I feel so dumb when it comes to hand jobs. Thanks for all the tips.

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    1. Pretty soon you’ll be an expert and he’ll be saying “Woah!

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  2. How long does a hand job
    usually last or go for? Is it awkward?

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    1. How long a hand job lasts really depends on you guys. It doesn’t have to end with him ejaculating, so you can stop and move on to other things whenever you like.

      As for awkwardness, it might feel a little awkward the first few times, but it will become much easier over time.

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  3. Using lubrication, grip his penis very, very loosely and barely touch the rim of the head with each finger as you move up and down the shaft. This will require less effort for you and greater sensation for him. His orgasm will occur much quicker and with much greater intensity.

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