Two-thirds of women can’t have an orgasm from intercourse alone. While intercourse feels great, most women need more than that to reach orgasm. Button Rub is an intercourse technique that is an excellent, simple way to get the clitoral stimulation she needs to reach orgasm during intercourse.
Performing the Button Rub Technique
Your clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings; that’s twice as many as your husband’s penis. The single purpose for your clitoris is to give you pleasure. God created you this way. Clitoral stimulation is the most common avenue for a woman’s orgasm.
So, do you see where I’m going with this? You or your husband need to stimulate your clitoris during sex. The easiest and most effective method of stimulating your clitoris during intercourse is to use a few fingers to rub your clitoris while making love to your husband. The missionary position while your husband holds his upper body up with his arms is the easiest sex position to try the button rub technique in.
Wait, You Want Me To Do What?
I know, I know, you might have been taught not to touch yourself down there because it’s masturbating. Or, maybe you feel that touching yourself like that is dirty. But God gave you a clitoris to provide you with pleasure, and it’s not in your vagina. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with you or your husband stimulating your clitoris while making love or during foreplay for that matter. God created you with a clitoris for a reason. Enjoy it with your husband.
- Use lube: Dry fingers will probably irritate your clitoris. Apply a dab of your favorite personal lubricant to your fingers before rubbing your clitoris for a more comfortable experience.
- Add a tingling cream: Apply a drop or two of scream cream to your fingers and add a buzzing, cooling, or warm sensation to your rubbing.
- Use a vibrator: If you want to ensure you orgasm quickly or just need more stimulation, press a small vibrator against your clitoris during intercourse.