Level Up Sex Using Rhythmic Motions

Turn good sex into incredible lovemaking by simply changing the rhythm of your foreplay and intercourse techniques and positions.

Pleasure in Patterns

Think of a catchy song, the kind that gets stuck in your head, that gets you tapping your foot while working at your desk or tapping your steering wheel while driving. Those repeated movements create a rhythm. Your body is very sensitive, and the same motion with slightly different rhythms can feel very different. Experimenting with rhythms during foreplay and intercourse to hone in on what feels best for you can take something that already feels great and make it feel incredible!

Skipping

Skipping is where you take a break in between motions or skip every other motion. For example, instead of a steady pumping motion, pause between thrusts. By holding back and skipping every other thrust, it creates a sweet, half-scratch desire that’s never 100% satisfies and helps slowly build up to a more satisfying climax.

The best way to experiment with the skipping technique is to take a rhythm that works for you and skip or omit portions of it. It will draw out that portion of intercourse and dial up the intensity for your orgasm later.

Raindrops

Next time it begins to rain, especially as a light rain begins, take a moment to listen to the randomness of the raindrops falling from the edge of a roof or tree. Irregular rhythms introduce randomness and unpredictability, generating a sense of excitement. The unpredictability of sensations causes your senses to become heightened and on edge, which also helps slowly build sexual tension toward orgasm.

Experiment with random thrusting depths, licks, touches, speeds, pauses, and angles to keep your spouse’s body guessing what’s coming next.

Back-to-Back

For some wives, getting an orgasm is kind of like blowing up a balloon until it pops, with popping being the orgasm. If you stop blowing up the balloon, you risk the air leaving and never being able to pop it.

Constant, steady, predictable movement can get her there, too. Pick a rhythm and commit to it, while only slightly changing the speed until she climaxes. For example, set a lovemaking rhythm of a fast thrust in with a slightly slower pull back. Start slow and gradually build to a pace that lets you go the distance and last long enough to get her there. Layer in a vibrator pressed against her clitoris if she needs more than intercourse to orgasm.

Constant Pulsating

Vibrators are popular because they maintain constant contact and deliver steady pulsing that’s very stimulating.

Constant pulsing during cunnilingus looks something like pressing your tongue against her clitoris and slightly moving it up and down or side to side quickly without breaking contact.

Apply constant pulsing during sex by fully entering your wife, pressing the skin above the base of your penis against her clitoris, and grinding against her. Hubby can press his feet against the bed’s footboard for leverage, or both of you can use the mattress’s spring to enhance your grinding movements.

Applying it in the Bedroom

• Patience and a little creativity will get you the best results.
• Experiment by modifying your favorite routines with one of the techniques in this guide.
• Don’t give up if something doesn’t work as you thought.
• Give it a few tries to perfect the technique and let your body adapt to the new sensations.