Soaking is an intercourse technique with little movement that allows each spouse to feel each other and experience closeness. This is an excellent technique for beginning sex or when things need to cool down a bit during sex.
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Getting Into Position
Soaking with your spouse is best when performed in husband on top sex positions such as Missionary or Adapted Missionary. Soaking also works well with woman on top positions such as Mastery or Cowgirl.
How to Perform the Soaking Intercourse Technique
To soak, the man penetrates his wife’s vagina with his penis without thrusting and stays still. The husband’s penis soaks in his wife’s vagina while they kiss and caress each other.
- Once you’re finished soaking with your husband, press a bullet vibrator against your clitoris and orgasm from its stimulation before he starts thrusting. We call this the Cumonhispickle Technique. It’s a must try!
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Two Cents says
Soaking is a great way for man to learn how to extend their time to climax. Enjoy stimulating your wife’s body with your hands why “resting” inside her, then very thrusting speeds to train your body and learn how your penis reacts to the vaginal stimulation. Over time you’ll be able to thrust with longer in and out strokes and at higher speeds.