Come-Hither Clasp is a manual stimulation technique that uses two fingers to stimulate her g-spot. This technique works best once she’s very aroused.
You’ve undoubtedly heard of the g-spot. You might have spent time looking for it, and wondered if you’ve found it. The g-spot is actually much more than a little spot. Think of her g-spot as a cluster of “roots” embedded in her “soil” of erectile tissue in the roof of her vagina near its opening. The “roots” are part of the internal mass of her clitoris. The Come-Hither Clasp manual stimulation technique is a great way to stimulate her g-spot.
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Using the Come-Hither Clasp Manual Stimulation Technique
Before you go any further, there is one VERY important prerequisite to this technique. She needs to be very aroused before you attempt to stimulate her g-spot. If she’s not very aroused you won’t be able to stimulate her g-spot. The spongy erectile tissue in the g-spot area needs to be engorged with blood before her clitoral “roots” can be stimulated. Most people who have tried finding the g-spot and failed probably didn’t take the time and effort for proper arousal. We have plenty of cunnilingus techniques that will help you get her ready for awesome g-spot stimulation.
How to Perform the Come-Hither Clasp Technique
- Start by inserting your pointer and middle fingers with your palm up into her vagina about 3 inches. You shouldn’t need lube because she should be very aroused already.
- Gently graze her vaginal ceiling with the tip of your finger pads in a “come-hither” gesture. As you do so, you will feel a slightly different texture of engorged spongy material.
- After several “come-hither” gestures, increase the pressure being applied to her g-spot.
You can also use the Come-Hither Clasp manual stimulation technique while she’s lying flat on her belly. Instead of your palm facing up, it should be facing down into the bed when she’s laying on her belly.
Note: This post is part of our Giving Your Wife Great Cunnilingus series.