Handy is a clever grinding manual clitoral and vulva stimulation technique that allows the woman to control the pressure and motion of her vulva against his hand and fingers.
Getting Into Position
The man sits in bed with his legs straight out and spread apart a little, with his back resting against the headboard.
How to Perform the Handy Manual Stimulation Technique
The husband applies a few drops of personal lubricant to his hand and makes a fist to spread and warm it up. Next, he places his hand, palm side up, on his thigh.
The wife straddles her husband’s thigh so that his hand is pressed against her vulva. She makes front-to-back motions to grind on his fingers—experiment with raising a finger or two a little to focus more stimulation on the clitoris.
The woman can apply lube to her hand and give her husband a handjob while grinding on him.