Jiggle & Jam is a manual stimulation technique that uses the head of your husband’s penis for clitoral stimulation. Enjoy this technique during foreplay or when things need to cool down a bit during intercourse.
Getting into Position
- The wife sits on a soft chair or couch with her butt at the edge.
- She pulls her legs up with her knees near her chest and holds them there with her hands under her knees.
- The husband kneels before her and adjust the height of his pelvis so that his penis is at the same level as her vulva. He can raise his pelvis with pillows under his knees if needed.

How to Perform the Jiggle & Jam Technique
Once the husband’s penis is erect, he or his wife takes his penis and jiggles the head of it over her clitoris.
This is a great technique for clitoral stimulation right before intercourse to help get her warmed up and ready for sex. It’s also great for when things get a little too exciting for the husband and he needs a little time to cool down but keep his wife moving towards an orgasm.
Additional Stimulation
- Clitoral Stimulation: Insert your penis into your wife’s vagina and keep it fully inserted and still while you use your fingers, a small vibrator to stimulate her clitoris until she has an orgasm.
- Nipple & Breast Stimulation: Place a pair of nipple suckers or vibrators on your wife’s breasts to stimulate oxytocin production which helps her orgasm.
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