Pause and Rub is a manual stimulation technique that gives you the full feeling of being penetrated while enjoying manual clitoral stimulation from your husband. This is an excellent technique for cooling your husband down during intercourse while continuing to stimulate you.
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Performing the Pause and Rub Technique
The Pause and Rub Technique is really simple. All you do is get into a position where your husband can penetrate you and have easy access to manually stimulate your clitoris using your favorite techniques. This technique will give you the full feeling of being penetrated by your husband while he stimulates you. Pause and Rub is also a great technique for letting your husband cool down during intercourse while he keeps stimulating you towards orgasm.
Here are a few techniques from CFSPs that work well for the Pause and Rub Technique:
- Clitoral Stimulation: Apply a drop or two of scream cream to your wife’s clitoris while manually stimulating her to add a tingling, warming, or cooling sensation. If she needs a lot of stimulation, try using a small vibrator to stimulate her clitoris.
- Nipple & Breast Stimulation: Place a pair of nipple suckers/vibrators on your wife’s breasts to add more stimulation and help release oxytocin hormones that make her feel a sense of bonding and bring on her orgasm.