Comments on: What Your Husband Wants Most from You in Bed

By: El

El — Sat, 30 May 2026 09:34:01 +0000

What about her pleasure? Where’s the article for men about satisfying their wives in bed? Sex ALSO equals love for many women. Sheila Gregoire’s research on evangelical women and couples shows that when you also focus on her pleasure, then she’s much more likely to WANT to have more sex. Instead of just telling women to be more enthusiastic and please their husband, we should get curious and wonder why women aren’t interested in sex; usually it’s because she’s receiving obligation sex messages in church that turn sex into a chore, or because she’s shouldering too much of the mental load at home. Fix those problems, and many couples will see an increase in sexual frequency. But telling women to just be more enthusiastic can actually backfire, because it makes the obligation sex message stronger and kills her libido.

By: G...

G... — Mon, 16 Jun 2025 19:48:45 +0000

In reply to Two Cents.

I agree with the enthusiasm comment. If he knows that she is excited, having fun, wanting to be a bit adventurous, playful, he will, (and she will), enjoy sex so much more and will probably want to do it much more often… because they’re having fun together! Avoid sex being a check list, payback, chore, inconvenience, duty. Finally, pray that the Lord will help you get to this playful attitude about having FUN SEX with the only person on the face of the earth that you can DO IT with…

By: Two Cents

Two Cents — Fri, 03 Feb 2023 16:58:45 +0000

These are really good suggestions and I’ll add a few of my own. I’d say learn how to touch his penis and ask him how he’d like it to be touched. Most men know exactly how they like their penis to be handled (because we’ve been handling them ourselves most of our lives). Also, learn how and ask about how they like a blowjob and invest in falling in love with the act itself. If you enjoy doing it your man will know, and it will make the experience 10 times more enjoyable for him.